Oh Facebook. Why must you be so FUCKING connected?? My queer, leftist, artsy fart, fantastical world is being invaded by people from my past who know nothing about me as I exist today. This is can be risky. I may be out to my friends, school and workplace, but family by and large, is still a very sensitive subject for me. Some of my family are super chill and accept me for everything that I am. But the older folks in my close knit extended family are a different story.
Por ejemplo, a few of my family members are on Facebook. I’ve accepted this as a reality. For the most part it’s been fine, but as a result I’ve pulled back on communicating with people there because I find my family making comments ON EVERYTHING I post. See Figure 1.
Figure 1. Confused family member comments on Facebook event post

How do I explain Systyr Act to my Aunt? Should I just say, “Systyr Act is a group of my queer/trans friends who dress up like nuns making a total mockery of Catholics, Jesus & pop music. It’s hilarious!!!”? It could be the perfect time to be honest, sure. But more to the point, I CAN NOT STOP LAUGHING at this! If she only knew…
See you tonight.